Think of the words hardened and soften. How do these wars cause some Nephites to become hardened while others became softened. What does Mormon teach (verse 40) about why the Nephites were spared? See also Romans 8:28, 35–39.
Today you will study the words of modern day prophets and church leaders from the most recent general conference.
As you are studying the general conference talk pay attention to additional teachings from the Spirit. Follow Richard G. Scott's direction from October 2009 talk titled "To Acquire Spiritual Guidance" and after feeling prompted by the spirit as "Is there more I should know?"
Take time to record your thought and impressions.
Ask questions and look for answers
What questions come to mind about the topic discussed?
If you could ask the speaker one question what would be be?
If the answers don't jump out from the talk search LDS.org for additional study material.
Invitations
Have the speakers invited you to do something? What is the invitation? How can you diligently fulfill the invitation? What are the promised blessings with the given invitation?
Look for . . .
Look for Jesus Christ
Look for doctrines or principles
Look for blessings
Look for words or phrases that uplift and encourage
If you are desiring additional insight, prepare a lesson for Family Home Evening based on the message you have studied.